Emotional and Spiritual Growth for Savvy Girls

My passion is Helping Savvy Girls Grow not just spiritually, but also emotionally. After all, we might know what the Bible says about different things, but do we know ourselves and why we react or make certain choices that affect our lives? I want to keep growing so I can help you do the same. That's why I went to seminary and got my Masters in Spiritual Formation and Direction. It's why Iwrite this blog as well as speak at different events, write books, articles, and Bible Studies. It's also why I love meeting one-on-one with women so I can listen to where they are and help strengthen and encourage them with what the Lord has taught me.My definition of a Savvy Girl is not one who knows everything and has everything going for her--perfect marriage, high achieving kids, nice house, flourishing ministry--and whatever else comes with all that. Some women are blessed in all these ways but that doesn't mean that those who don't reach that peak of perfection can't be Savvy! No. My definition of a Savvy Girl is someone who is hungry to grow and who is wide open to receive whatever God wants her to know. Her goal? To grow into a more healthy person, spiritually and emotionally, and as a result, become more like Jesus.Even though my last two blogs on domestic violence, or abusive relationships, weren't fun topics, growth means having the courage to face reality. Knowing the signs of a "don't go there" relationship before you get into it is just being smart! But what about if you're already married to an abusive spouse? What then? Here's seven key things you need to know:

• Don't hide what is happening, no matter how much you are warned not to say anything
• Share with a safe and supportive person--is there a pastor who will listen and hear you?
• Get educated: Read up on destructive relationships via the web or in the library
• Call a Domestic Violence hot-line for information and advice
• Don't assume your children aren't being affected--they are!
• Be careful for your safety if you separate. Don't agree to meet without a third party
• Gather your important documents (SS#, birth/marriage certificates, bank accounts, etc.)so you can get to them quickly if you need to go to a safe place.

I realize this is difficult to read but my prayer is that God will use it for your good and His glory. Please feel free to respond to this blog annonymously, or email me: poppy@poppysmith.com. I'd love to support you with God's help.